Yes, You Can Still Learn Something New

 

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Three weeks ago, Ma didn’t know how to use the computer.  Before I gave her a netbook, whenever I asked her for the best time for us to have our computer time, she would always say, “Next time.”

With the netbook, we took some time to learn the basics of turning the netbook on and off and the same for the modem. Next, I taught her how to use Facebook. Of course! And Google.

We created her own email address and her Skype ID. And Ma is ever protective of her passwords! I don’t know them.

We practiced sending emails and opening emails, adding contacts on Skype, chatting and calling.

Three weeks later, she is always online. Ma enjoys her new found freedom online.  She takes pleasure watching the photos of her apos on Facebook. She leaves trails by putting her comments on any topic she likes. And she takes delight in watching videos where children say their 2 cents.

Ma also is now reaching out to her old friends via email. In addition, days after learning how to be on the net, Ma became more confident. One day, she told me that she discovered that her mobile phone has a radio!

Ma will turn 70 this year, and she still has worlds to conquer. What about you?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Let’s Rewire in 21 Days

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Ok, so let’s make an experiment.  Today is Day ONE. If you want to share what you are grateful for here, feel free to write in the comments’ section at least 3 things you are happy about and keep adding until YOU complete YOUR 21 DAYS and tell us what changed in you, okay? So here goes.

DAY ONE  Friday: January 29, 2016

  • Dad is home from the hospital and is on the mend.
  • I communicated with my sister and she is willing to help with the expenses.
  • My 8 yr-old nephew is joining a school wide spelling bee.
  • I’m learning (a lot!) from work
  • My boss is a very nice person to work with.
  • I heard from an old friend, Momay.
  • I still communicate with other “old” friends– we will celebrate one year of friendship in May this year, we met at POSH, and they are Sharon and Mayet
  • My Mom is still very strong
  • I have friends I can make experiments with at a click of a mouse

DAY TWO Saturday: January  30, 2016

  • I was able to attend the Bible study today, met my friends and learned from them
  • I learned that no one is worth it, but God loved us so much He sent His only Son
  • Manay sent us something to help pay for Dad’s hospital bills
  • I found a way to travel the world cheap and to enjoy it!- it was shared to me by Manay; we were talking about parttime work online and she told me about this website
  • I was chatting with one of my oldest friends
  • I shared great ideas with 2 close friends, Dennis and Grace V
  • My nephew won first place in the spelling bee
  • I want to travel the world this year 2016 while earning good money
  • I will learn new skills

DAY THREE Sunday: January  31, 2016

  • I was able to attend the FEAST again today, and despite the heavy traffic on the way to PICC, and the absence of the orange jeepneys, so I had to walk for a good 20 minutes in the sun, I was able to reach my destination and to hear the second reading, prior to the Gospel!
  • I was able to share some sentiments with my POSH sisters
  • My newly bought umbrella suffered a beating this afternoon because of the strong wind while I walked on my way to PICC, BUT, although the spines got bent a little, not one snapped, so my brand new umbrella is still useful =). No need to buy another one!
  • I gave more than a tenth of my income– in fact, what I gave for my tithe today is from my savings and blessings are starting to drench me! I heard from one of my prospects today! Thank you! Thank you! We are going to discuss the terms!
  • I made plans to travel the world this morning and afternoon, before leaving for the FEAST, and Mom wants to come with me when her classes end in October! I already booked our flight for October 18.
  • I made plans to go backpacking by myself this year 2016 and am planning what countries to go to….
  • Mom is now able to comprehend the possibility of going to the Holy Land at a lesser cost than what other people charge. =)

Today is February 17–I am guilty of not being able to finish the 21-Day Challenge and will have to restart…=(

 

Take Courage, I am Here

2016 is here.

What are your immediate thoughts, imagination,and or feelings, when you think of 2016?

Me? I want to make it better than 2015. For me and for my family.

2015 was riddled with different concerns, I was job-hopping, bills had to be paid, my resources were dwindling fast,we had family health issues..the list seemed endless.

But then, someone was looking out for me.  My Great Provider sent me the work that will help me continue bringing food, paying our bills, saving for emergencies, etc.

This 2016 there will be bills to pay, issues to face, problems to solve.

But just like last year, the year before that and way back more than two thousand years ago, we do not face it alone.

Today’s homily told me and all listeners that we have to take courage, for the Lord our God is here.  The priest talked about the Epiphany of the Lord. That He is introducing Himself to us as the new year unfolds.  Jesus is telling us that we have nothing to fear as He walked on water. Jesus says

He is the Great PROVIDER.

Mark 6:45-52 talks about the feeding of 5000 men, not counting women and children. Why do you worry about what you are to eat?

He is the All-knowing TEACHER.

Mark 6: 34-44 shows that Jesus “was moved with pity…and He began to teach them many things.” Why do you crack your brain, trying to solve it yourself?

He is a HEALER.

Mt 4:12-17, 23-25 paints Jesus healing “all who were sick with various diseases and racked with pain. Why are you losing hope?

2016 may not be problem-free.

But remember that Jesus is our Teacher.  He will show us the way.  The solution to any problem is ready, even before you encounter the problem.

He is our Healer. There is no disease that He cannot heal. And healing comes in many forms.

He is our Provider. We have overcome any amount of bills.  We have not been hungry.  We have food on our table. We have clothes on our backs. We have roof on our heads.

All you need to do is accept that He has always taken care of all your needs. Until now.

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Recognize that He is always with you and because of that,  no amount of attacks can sap your strength. Because His Grace is Enough( according to St Paul 2 Corinthians 12:9). You can carry your yoke with grace.

Renew your mind

“Do not conform to the ways of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” .(Romans 12:2)

See your blessings. Accept them. Express gratitude for them. You’ll be surprised that you are actually inundated with, and swimming in a sea of blessings.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Chicken Feet Adobo

Christmas…you are just a few days away. I can’t believe I was worrying about how I’d celebrate this Christmas  a few months ago…I was wondering if I would have any extra money to buy the food I’ll prepare for our Noche Buena, I was not sure if I’d have enough so I can take my family to the mall for the usual after Christmas movie and dinner treat.  And now, you are here.  I can hear the kids with their homemade drums and tamborine as they bang away, happily singing  their hearts out…

This afternoon, while I cooked my chicken feet adobo, I turned on the portable piano I bought for my Mom about five years ago one December evening. She told me she wanted to learn how to play the piano, so I bought her an electronic keyboard. Dad, in his rare lucid moment was able to express his question about Ma, really learning how to play. (Dad is a stroke patient and until now, he has difficulty talking).

Ma has her bucket list and it includes piano playing.  Well, the piano is waiting.

I have mine too, and my list ALWAYS involves the kitchen.  This year, my newest recipe is chicken feet adobo.  I have  a list of what I’ll experiment on before the year is over and  will definitely post the results here and on my facebook album: Lily’s wok.

WordPress is telling me that today is my second year anniversary with wordpress, when I registered this blog.  Well, I have some delectable chicken feet adobo to feast on.

Here’s the chicken feet adobo. Bon appetit!

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Of Storms and Ice Cream

Typhoon Nona has just left Manila.  The rains are no more.  But she definitely left some homeless here and there; some crops destroyed; establishments damaged; lives lost…

That is always the case when we have storms —and we have them the whole year, at any time… At least, nowadays, the government is more responsive and the people more alert…

And Christmas is just around the bend. All over the country, Catholics look forward to the Simbang Gabi–it started last night, and as I type on my pc, I can hear the mass going on a stone’s throw from my house.  The next one will be at 4 am later, which I also cant attend, for I work at home from 10 pm until 6 am.

I’ve been wrackingmybrains what dishes to prepare for our Noche Buena.  Ever Since I learned how to cook, I have been preparing meals for the family and the Christmas season is when I try out my experiments.

Then, I saw this on my fb  news feed  —  https://www.facebook.com/epicurious/videos/10156345691670204/

 

 

The Miracle of Tithing

I have to admit, I used to be one of those who would put coins in the basket.  The basket that goes around in church when it’s time to give your offering.  You know what I’m talking about, right?  On times when I’d put a paper bill there, that would be like giving too much from my pocket and it’s difficult to open your palm to let the bill drop…

I wasn’t a regular giver then. It would happen only when I had extra change in my pocket that I wanted to get rid off.  The pocket can bulge and it’s uncomfortable when you sit. Also, coins are heavy to carry in your pocket or in your bag.

I wasn’t a miser. I was just uninformed about the reason behind tithing.

Hey, but even when I already knew about it, and believe me, you can hear about it and pretend not to understand or attend Brother Bo’s talk about tithing multiple times and still not want to give. Up to a certain point. Like the new attendees who were only forced by their families to join them who refuse to sing along or to clap their hands, tap their feet or dance along. Or pretend not to be touched by the Spirit.  Hearts can be hard sometimes, but not hard enough for the Holy Spirit.

When I was very new to the FEAST and was just attending, mind you, attending is just being there. Waiting to be served, waiting to be taught–the most I would give was PHP 20.00. If you give that much every week, then that is PHP 100.00 monthly and that is  PHP 1200.00 yearly. Meagerly, yes, but for the uninitiated, it’s a lot of money, going –where…?

I can spend any amount of money- of course within my budget and my income — on me, or on my family–and I won’t mind too much.  Because, I spent it on me—or on my family.  But a thousand bucks on an anonymous purpose, that was like,  give money for what? Huh?

Oh, I know about the story of the widow who gave all her treasure.  Been hearing that story all my life.  But I think you will agree with me that no matter how many times we hear a story, unless you experience the same, you will never understand.

I’ve been tithing for some years now. Not regularly and not even the right amount every time. Sometimes, I’d forget to prepare the envelope before going to the FEAST. But when I remembered, I would always give.

And I was put to the test. Or  was it God  I put on the HOT Seat?

I have resigned from a lot of jobs before. WhenI was overseas, i made sure that when Friday was my last day in one company, the next Monday, I would report to my next job.  I wasn’t always like that though. And this time, I again resigned from my job without having found a replacement yet.

Tithing was not a problem at the start. But the more I kept giving, since my expenses were also continuing, the more I gave, it started to hurt. And when I was close to using up my savings, I prayed for help. Of course, I was also already looking for work and made it known that I was in the market. One Sunday, I was close to running out of savings and yet I decided to give 1k! That is a thousand bucks!  I prayed really hard after that.

Two weeks later, I got an email from a potential client. It led to an interview and the rest is history.

I work at home. I am able to cook food for my family and eat with them. I can watch DVDs with them too. And I work while they sleep.

Last week, I decided to give a bigger portion for my tithe.  We have this envelope to show our gratitude for the extravagant harvest of the year.  I know the amount I give is probably a pittance to what others are able to give on a regular basis.  But that is no longer my business.

I prepared my envelope a few days ago.

This morning, I remembered that I still have to give the regular tithe and I felt the pinch.  I even voiced it aloud in my room. But I took the money from my safe place and put in in my wallet to take to the FEAST.

Last night, I was overflowing with gratitude and a thought crossed my mind. I wanted to give 5 k for my extra tithe this year. Now that is a real punch in the solar plexus of my wallet. Crazy. But the crazier thought is what I shared with my friend this afternoon. That I wanted to be able to give 10k next December.  And my friend was telling me that she wanted to test God’s generosity.

 “Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house.  
Test me in this,” says the LORD Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.
—Malachi 3:10

 

When I got home, I opened my Facebook account because one of my friends at POSH (Pray Over Shepherding and Healing) asked me to like a picture of her granddaughter. Because I opened by FB account, I saw my sister’s PM and she was sending me money, for pick up! I  have been thinking of asking my siblings to help me care for our parents, but I have not really asked them yet.

Alas! Who can outdo the Lord in generosity?  Can we ever do that?

The money I gave to the Lord today, was returned to me more than double the amount I gave! I am sure there will be more on its way!

Thank you Lord.  I want to share that Your goodness and mercy have been chasing me and my family.  I am ready to receive more blessings. I am ready to give more blessings. Amen.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Forgiveness, Love and Mercy

I am a Child of God

We know that all things work together for good for those who love God

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In all of God’s magnificence and mercy, we see all around us, mirrors of His eternal goodness and love, in our families, from our friends, and from strangers even.

But let us not forget that even in  Paradise Adam and Eve’s tranquil lives were disturbed by the serpent.  So if it happened in Paradise, what more in this world we live in?

There are people like Mother Teresa who grace this earth and share God’s love to the unlovable despite the selfishness, cruelty and chaos all around us. Perhaps, they are really angels sent to live with us as humans to remind us that there is a God who loves us unconditionally.

And there are also those who in their pain  forget that  they are God’s favored children and may get distracted and succumb to the temptation to be like gods, and in the process lose themselves to be tangled forever in the abyss of blackness where there is no possibility of leaving.

Somewhere in this world, there are people so afraid of  being controlled, of being unwanted, unloved.  They hide behind the wall of  superiority.   Averse to rules, they make their own to suite their needs. Feeling no compassion for others, they rationalize that they are bored and need to entertain themselves by playing with people. Fantasizing killing people they like, dislike and even those they don’t know to feed their need to sow chaos.

The need to manipulate and to control when we are scared.  We are all guilty of that at some point. I am. I forget that I am a beloved child of God. And I need to remind myself of the basic precept. That We are SACRED. We are all created in the likeness of God. He loves us so much, He sent His only begotten Son to save us.

He  has great plans for us.  According to Jeremiah 29:11New International Version (NIV)

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

God’s forgiveness has no bound and His mercy is everlasting. He loves us so much to leave us in darkness.

To you dear brother or sister, I pray that the Holy Spirit will touch your heart, open the eyes of your mind and give you courage to say no to the disturbance of your scared soul, that you will have the fortitude to control your urge to go wayward and that you will say yes only to the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

You are loved even before you were born. You belong to the family of God. You are not alone.